As women, we juggle numerous roles that define our identity - daughter, sister, daughter-in-law, wife, and mother. Often, in the midst of fulfilling these roles, we lose sight of our individual selves. When I became a mother, I contemplated leaving my job to focus solely on this new role. However, my husband reminded me of something crucial: "You are not just a mother; you are Yashika too. Don't forget her."
His words resonated with me, reminding me to preserve my true identity amidst the demands of motherhood. I found happiness in balancing my roles, supported by a loving husband, caring in-laws, and our newborn.
But life can change in an instant. I received a call that shattered my world - "We lost him." The pandemic had taken my husband away, leaving me adrift in a sea of grief and uncertainty.
Amidst my anguish, my family urged me to return to work, to find purpose once more. With my two-year-old son asking for his father's return, I realized I needed to be both mother and father now. Gathering my strength, I returned to work fifteen days after my husband's passing, determined to forge a new path for myself and my child.
To those who doubt the ability of single mothers, I challenge you to reconsider. Love is the cornerstone of a child's well-being, and single mothers pour boundless love into raising their children. We may stumble along the way, but our determination knows no bounds.
I am grateful for the opportunity to be a mother, recognizing that my love for my child transcends any professional accomplishments. Through my journey, I've learned the importance of self-care and preserving one's identity amidst the chaos of motherhood.
To all single mothers out there, I implore you not to doubt yourselves. You are strong, resilient, and a guiding light for your children.